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'You can't be in both places - The Kerry prodigy missing All-Ireland final for AFLW dreams

Paris McCarthy will be cheering on her old teammates in the All-Ireland final from her Sydney Swans base.

KERRY HAS BEEN on Paris McCarthyโ€™s mind this week.

paris-mccarthy-shoots-on-goal Paris McCarthy in action for Kerry in 2022. Ken Sutton / INPHO Ken Sutton / INPHO / INPHO

Itโ€™s understandable that her thoughts would amble towards home at this time. Something major, potentially historic, is happening in Ireland concerning her home county. She could have been involved, possibly playing an important role too, but instead, she is miles away. On the other side of the world. A supporter rather than a player.

Sheโ€™s happy with her choices though. Being in Ireland right now for Kerryโ€™s third All-Ireland final appearance in-a-row would mean she would have had to decline opportunities to explore new paths. McCarthy did play in the first of those All-Ireland finals, scoring a point from corner-forward as Meath overcame the Kingdom to become back-to-back champions.

Last year, she was in Australia preparing for her debut season in the AFLW with Sydney Swans. And that remains her main address. McCarthy has been on the road for the past few years, and while she does hope to resume playing for Kerry at some point, she has business abroad for now.

With her second AFLW season looming, there isnโ€™t even time to get home to support her home county.

โ€œIn the back of your mind, youโ€™re always going to have that,โ€ she says when asked if the she has thought about what she is missing out on at home this week.

โ€œBut you sacrifice stuff and you canโ€™t be in both places. Iโ€™ll relish what I have here and Iโ€™m focusing on my All-Ireland final here which is the Grand Final. Our goal is to get there.โ€

At just 20, McCarthy knows that she can hit the reboot button on her ladies football career again in the future. She was 19 when she first left these shores to pursue a basketball scholarship at a Division 1 College in Tennessee University with a view of one day breaking through to the WNBA.

It didnโ€™t work out, however. McCarthyโ€™s coach was dismissed from the position ahead of her arrival and the replacement never warmed to the Kerry prodigy coming in. The time differences with her friends and family at home resulted in a bout of homesickness. There were cultural clashes too that didnโ€™t help with the adjustment.

โ€œMy university wasnโ€™t in the middle of like an amazing spot. It was literally an industrial city. So, there was nothing around it. It was very, like, Texas vibes. You know when you see those tumbleweeds? It was very quiet and isolated. I think I just preferred Ireland at that stage and it was just tough.โ€

The original plan was to play basketball throughout her academic year and return to Ireland for summer football in Kerry. That arrangement worked for her first year in Tennessee, allowing her to clinch a league title with Kerry as well as playing in the 2022 All-Ireland final. But within a year, a new road unfolded before her.

Mike Currane, a talent ID and skills coach with AFLW Ireland, was the first to suggest a switch in sports to her in early 2022. She put his recommendation to one side, preferring to focus on basketball at the time. But the more she thought about it, the more she felt drawn to it.

โ€œI decided that this was a message coming out of nowhere at the right time. The more I spoke to the Swans, the more I wanted to go there.โ€

By March, McCarthy was one of three signings for the Swans. Her Kerry teammate โ€” and Castleisland Desmonds clubmate โ€” Julie Oโ€™Sullivan was also snapped up. Roscommon veteran Jenny Higgins completed the trio, although she suffered an ACL injury ahead of her competitive debut and is now on the comeback trail.

McCarthy had a good feeling about the move from the beginning. The rich contingent of Irish people at the club gave her a familiar feeling coming in. Tipperaryโ€™s Colin Oโ€™Riordan is part of the coaching set-up after retiring as a Swans player in 2022. Their S&C coach, Stephen Kelly, is from Dublin. 

The Sydney environment reminded her of playing for Kerry in ways too. They facilitated her in the same way that Declan Long and Declan Quill work for the Kerry team.

โ€œComing from Tennesse to here [Sydney], it was like Declan and Darragh. They were so welcoming. It just made me feel like this was a good opportunity and I decided to take it. I knew that it meant I wouldnโ€™t be able to play Gaelic for a while, which is tough. I think about it a lot. But I just think the fact that I am very young, I can go back to it. I just have to take these opportunities now to see how they go, and go from there.โ€

Season One was about learning the skills of the sport, and understanding how to kick the oval Sherrin after years of punting the Oโ€™Neillโ€™s ball. She made her debut in Round 3 against Brisbane, picked up a slight knee injury which sidelined her for one game, and returned to face Gold Coast Suns in the Elimination Final.

Season Two is about furthering her skillset and establishing herself in the team. Their campaign begins at the end of August, meaning a quick trip home to take in Kerry versus Galway in the All-Ireland final simply wouldnโ€™t be possible.

โ€œI knew that it was either in for all or in for nothing,โ€ McCarthy explains.

Watching Kerry play this weekend is certainly the focus for McCarthy, but she has been keeping a keen eye on the Olympics too. Competing at a Games is a major ambition of hers, potentially through the Rugby Sevens event. She played rugby briefly when she was younger after getting some encouragement from another Kerry Ladies player who was proficient in the Sevens game.

โ€œIt started when I first played against Louise Galvin. I think it was a county final between St Senanโ€™s and Castleisland. She was coming back for the game and I knew who she was because of the Sevens.

aoibhin-cleary-and-paris-mccarthy-challenge-for-the-ball McCarthy playing for Kerry in the 2022 All-Ireland final. Tom Maher / INPHO Tom Maher / INPHO / INPHO

โ€œWe were marking each other during the game and she said to me, โ€˜Youโ€™re strong. Have you thought about playing rugby?โ€™ So Iโ€™ve always been interested in it. Iโ€™d have to get recruited by them to play but you never know in the future.โ€

Like many other athletes who had an aptitude for multiple sports, McCarthy was forced to quit rugby as she had too many activities on the go. But the Sevens project at an Olympics is still something she wants to pursue. Meath double All-Ireland winner Vikki Wall is living proof that the pathway is there for others to try.

โ€œVikki is an insane athlete. Maybe she wasnโ€™t picked for the team right now but I think next time, she definitely will be. She has the power and strength so it would be exciting to see her get picked for that. So, there is a pathway.โ€

McCarthy and Oโ€™Sullivan are housemates in Sydney. They will watch the All-Ireland final together this Sunday. Galway have a former player on the AFLW circuit too in the form of รine McDonagh. She was part of the team who contested the 2019 All-Ireland final before joining the Hawks in 2022.

McCarthy has sent around some good luck wishes to her former Kerry teammates this week in preparation for the game. No regrets though. Sheโ€™s hoping only for a win from afar.

โ€œYou canโ€™t be sad about missing it. You just have to be happy for them. Theyโ€™ve worked so hard for it.

โ€œI was talking to Declan during the week, which was nice. I saw Declan and Darragh when I was home at Christmas too, and some of the girls. They were just so welcoming and Iโ€™m really excited for them.โ€

โ€œWeโ€™ll put on the VPN and try to change it back to Ireland.โ€

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    Mute Trappatoni
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    Jan 8th 2025, 8:09 AM

    No point keeping the talent weโ€™re producing in the shed. Get them out in the garden so they blossom!

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    Jan 8th 2025, 8:56 AM

    All for interprovincial ones, but actively dislike the fact an Irish international is going to abroad for game time in a position 2 of our 4 teams were screaming for a player.

    Interprovincial loans were popular enough about a decade ago, but have seemed to have died a death recently. And they clearly worked. Off my head I can think of 7 loans to Connacht in the past 10 years.

    Of the 7 Cooney, Roux, and Daly were in an Ireland squad within 2 years of their move. Wootton was in the league team of the year and was the leagueโ€™s top try scorer. (Others I were thinking of were Gilsenan, Declan Moore, and Michael McDonald). I would note few went back to their original province, but so what if the opportunity or pathway wasnโ€™t there.

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    Jan 8th 2025, 9:15 AM

    @David Hickey: Do you think players should be forced to play at a team?

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    Jan 8th 2025, 9:34 AM

    @David Hickey: maybe he doesnโ€™t want to play for a poor Connacht team and wants experience abroad? Bristol also have one of the richest club owners in England so this might work out well for him

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    Jan 8th 2025, 11:09 AM

    @adizlack93: Connacht wouldnโ€™t be so poor if resources were spread evenly

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    Jan 8th 2025, 11:12 AM

    @anthony davoren: IRFU ainโ€™t a charity bud. They were a disgrace against a young Ulster team at home recently and that was nothing to do with resources

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    Jan 8th 2025, 12:15 PM

    @adizlack93: Maybe. But thatโ€™s something the IRFU need to address. Itโ€™s a poor state of affairs when an Irish player would rather move abroad than play for an Irish team.

    @Thesaltyurchin: Of course they shouldnโ€™t be forced. But there absolutely needs to be more incentivised dictation from the IRFU.

    About 15 years ago you had lads who were second choice fighting at the bit to get an opportunity at another province (Keatley and Sexton trying to get to Connacht comes to mind), but now youโ€™ve 3rd or 4th choice lads happy to not play, or move abroad and nix the national team, over play for another province.

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    Jan 8th 2025, 1:03 PM

    @David Hickey: Maybe but Irish โ€˜incentivesโ€™ can be quite punitive, and Irish rugby is effectively authoritarian communism, personally I think exploring options in freer markets would be cheaper for the IRFU and beneficial to the standards of players. We can send all the players west if we like, will that make for an audience size capable of turning a profit? Maybe it does, maybe it doesnโ€™t either way its more money to spend.

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    Jan 8th 2025, 2:43 PM

    @Thesaltyurchin: They are punitive, and that is what I am suggesting can be improved. A player was offered a loan this summer and was agreeable but highlighted the increased costs and time required for having to travel cross country to study/work and having to rent now, when they had been living at home. A small accommodation of a few thousand euro wasnโ€™t afforded to them, and that was that. These are the blocks that need to be taken down.

    As regards development. The entire purpose of routing professionalism through the provinces is to act as a supply chain for the national team. Professional and financial ambition is to be involved with the national team. And if players/fans think otherwise, there is something wrong with the system. (Which isnโ€™t necessarily players/fans fault at all). Having players within direct IRFU/national team management will always be better than not for development.

    Connacht Rugbyโ€™s finances are in healthy shape, so I donโ€™t get the dig at Connachtโ€™s profitability, except for the sake of a dig at Connacht. Or its relevance to players going on loan there.

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    Jan 8th 2025, 2:49 PM

    @David Hickey: David Humphreys has already addressed this, heโ€™s said he cant force players sitting 2nd, 3rd 4th choice at a province to move, but players that are happy to sit on a bench rather than move and get gametime and challange themsleves are players that the national team doesnโ€™t want. Think weโ€™ll see move of this, Deegan was in great form earlier in season, (I thought better than Timoney and Prendergast) but those two are ahead of him for Ireland as they are first choice and heโ€™s not even a bench option and by not moving its cost him international apperances. The days of saying if you want to force your way into the Ireland is by winning your position at Leinster first. If you want international honours you need to be playing games.

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    Jan 8th 2025, 3:54 PM

    @David Hickey: Thatโ€™s the difference between a โ€œloanโ€ move and a permanent move. I am not sure what it is that puts players off moving, but none of the players you have listed went on to have stellar international careers. One thing a player craves is certainty and the loan move to England or France in the knowledge they will return is probably a compromise. Irish provinces will want the player to move permanently (I would think). Imagine if the Carbery deal had been offered as a 1 year loan โ€“ Munster would certainly have said no.

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    Jan 8th 2025, 4:39 PM

    @Paul Ennis: maybe not stellar, but better than those who went abroad or stayed down the pecking order.

    You canโ€™t play for Ireland if you play abroad, or are 3rd/4th choice (according to Humphreys). So the alternative is to get game time elsewhere, and it is better to do so in an environment under the IRFU control and for the benefit of an Irish team.

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    Jan 8th 2025, 4:55 PM

    @Paul Ennis: Whatever about the many other elements of the debate, the widely expressed idea โ€“ mentioned repeatedly here and elsewhere โ€“ that players leaving Leinster is a platform to international caps (nevermind a โ€˜stellar international careerโ€™) is a fallacy. If they canโ€™t make the first Leinster 23, 99% of these players are not going to have a stellar international career, regardless of where they go. (Tadhg Beirne represents that 1%.) Until the IRFU introduces provincial quotas dictating the make-up of Ireland squads, it will remain harder to get into the Ireland squad than the Leinster one. They need to leave to have a chance of reaching their potential, no more than that. I donโ€™t know where I stand on the wider argument, but watching Leinster v Leinster North doesnโ€™t do it for me.

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    Jan 8th 2025, 8:49 PM

    @David Hickey: Except Cooney, Roux and Daly werenโ€™t loans. They were players out of contract who moved province. The same as Ben Murphy, Josh Murphy, Andrew Smith, David Hawkshaw, Jack Aungier, Jeremy Loughman, Roman Salanoa, Paddy Patterson. To name but a few recent ones.

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    Jan 9th 2025, 7:05 AM

    @Stephen Nolan: You are incorrect. All 3 moved to Connacht on loan initially.

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    Jan 8th 2025, 12:47 PM

    Iโ€™d love to see the IRFU become a minority shareholder or have some form of partnership with a ProD2 team in France for this purpose. What young lad wouldnโ€™t be happy with going to Biarritz (for example) for a year or 2 to help their development.

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    Jan 8th 2025, 2:52 PM

    @cian nolan: they would be non JIFF players, and would Biarritz really want players that will only be there a seaon or two? Would they not be better giving that gametime to thierbown acamady players that will be staying with the team, and they can even build a team and future planning around?

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    Jan 8th 2025, 9:31 AM

    Like everything in Ireland this type of initiative is 10 years late.

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    Jan 8th 2025, 1:40 PM

    I think people are over-estimating the number of players who are really good bets for inter-provincial loans. Senior squads are smaller now while injury lists are higher. Given also the dearth of props across the board, and that Leinster, the main (desired) supplier of loanees have the additional issue of heavy international absences and associated minutes management, there arenโ€™t really that many guys who can be spared and recipients want. The Leinster FH surplus was quite unusual. (I also like the nickname of Harry the Spare, for which credit to the guys on the Molecast podcast)

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