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'I started playing out on the road with my brothers... They never treated me like a girl'
ALMOST A YEAR ago to the day, Shelbourne Ladies were on the verge of winning the Women’s FAI Cup final, when victory was cruelly snatched away from them.
Siobhan Killeen’s clinical finish after 55 minutes looked to have won the game for Shels, but with literally seconds remaining until the final whistle, Ciara Rossiter was on hand to slot a rebound home, after goalkeeper Niamh Reid Burke parried away Emma Hansberry’s free kick.
Further drama ensued as a Maria Delahunty extra-time volley gave Wexford Youths the lead for the first time before another last-gasp close-range goal, this time from Shelbourne’s Dearbhaile Beirne, ensured the match went to penalties.
Wexford Youths ultimately prevailed from the spot 4-2 as they won the trophy for the first time in their history. Shelbourne, meanwhile, were left to wonder what might have been, as they came agonisingly close to tasting glory.
Losing in such heartbreaking fashion is not something that can be easily erased from the memory and to make matters worse, Shels also were beaten in the league play-off by the same opponents later in the season.
“It was kind of a rollercoaster,” Rachel Graham, who played for Shelbourne that day, tells The42. “We were seconds away from winning it and then conceding, and conceding again, and then getting back to penos. It was up and down.
This year, Graham and co have an opportunity to gain revenge on the Youths, as they meet again on Sunday in the WFAI Cup final (kick-off: 12.05pm).
With Wexford winning three trophies last season, and beating Shelbourne in the league play-off as well as the cup final and the WNL Shield, some observers might assume they will have the edge going into tomorrow’s game.
Yet the momentum actually appears to be with the Dubliners. They secured an impressive 3-1 victory over Wexford Youths in the league last September in Ferrycarrig Park and currently sit top of the WNL on 20 points — four ahead of their opponents on Sunday, who sit third.
Compared with the highs of last year, Wexford Youths have had a difficult campaign this time around. Their historic Champions League run ended in disappointing fashion, while they have struggled to maintain the type of form that saw them win the league last year, although injuries to some key players haven’t helped.
Shelbourne, by contrast, look better than ever of late. In addition to their impressive exploits in the league, they also won the WNL Cup after beating UCD Waves 3-2 last May.
It is just the second season since the side merged with Raheny, and Graham believes it is only now that the players are truly beginning to click.
“We’ve got a new coach (Mark Leavy) in who’s very good and we’re well organised, so there’s nothing too strange or secretive (about our success), it’s just good coaching and we’ve gelled better as a team than last year.”
Before their merger with Shelbourne, Graham had spent almost half her life playing for Raheny.
Now 27, the experienced midfielder joined the club at the age of 14. Before then, her first experience of organised football was with a boys’ team when she was aged 11. She only left for Raheny after the rules dictated that she could no longer play with footballers of the opposite sex.
“I started playing out on the road with my brothers and they never treated me like a girl — they were pushing me to the ground and kicking me and roughing me up. They didn’t give me any sympathy, but that’s the way it should be.
“I’m in Carlow IT now. They’ve a football course and I train with boys down there — it’s something I’ve always done, so it’s not like I’m a fish out of water playing with boys.”
With Graham currently studying sports management and coaching, her schedule tends to be quite hectic, particularly when she’s expected to play football for her college as well as Shels.
Graham admits she will likely be nervous than usual on Sunday, in the somewhat unfamiliar surrounds of the Aviva Stadium and with the RTÉ cameras watching on.
“But it wouldn’t be too bad — it’s still a game at the end of the day, so you have to block all that out and just play the game.”
And while there was plenty of drama and excitement in last year’s WFAI Cup final, there was also an unwelcome bit of controversy.
The fact that the game went to penalty kicks meant it wreaked havoc with the matchday schedule at the Aviva. As a consequence, the men’s teams, who were due to play each other imminently, had less time to warm up and in desperation, took to the field while the women’s penalty shootout was taking place.
“It was only afterwards we saw the uproar about it. It is good to have the two (of the FAI Cup finals on) together and the two of them on the telly — treating them as equal. I think they’ve allowed a bit more time (between them) this year in case the same thing happens again, but hopefully we’ll get it done in the 90 minutes this time.”
Consequently, there may be several stumbling blocks and it is probably going at a slower pace than some people would like, but there is no doubt that women’s football in Ireland has made progress, both in terms of popularity and in relation to the playing standard.
The formation of the WNL in 2011 was a big step forward, while WFAI Cup finals haven’t always been shown on national television.
“Even some people who never even knew about women’s football are wishing me good luck (for Sunday), because they’ve seen it advertised.
“Players are travelling to play for Dublin clubs, whereas you never would get that if there wasn’t a national league, so the standard is better overall.
“I think if they actually went to games, they’d be surprised at the standard of players there. (Women’s football has) always had a bad name, but I think over the last couple of years, we’re getting away from that and people are taking it a bit more seriously, but there’s still a bit to go.”
The 2016 Women’s FAI Cup final between Shelbourne Ladies and Wexford Youths will be shown live on RTÉ2 from 11.50am on Sunday.
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